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Re-Post From The Femulate Blog

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  Crossdressers who live full-time as women often exist in a unique space between traditional crossdressing and transgender identity. While every individual’s journey is different, here’s a thoughtful look at this group—sometimes referred to as  full-time crossdressers ,  transfeminine non-transitioners  or  nonbinary feminine-presenting men —depending on their self-identification.   Who Are They?   These are individuals who were assigned male at birth, identify (often but not always) as male or nonbinary, but choose to present and live full-time in feminine clothing, roles and appearance—without necessarily undergoing medical or legal transition.   They may live as “ladies” socially, professionally or domestically. Some still use he/him pronouns; others prefer she/her or they/them. They may or may not consider themselves transgender.   Why Live Full-Time as Female?   Feminine Identity Feels Natural – They feel m...

Skirting The Issue - Blog #150

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  Blog #150.  I never thought I'd make it this far. Sticking with a task for more than a week is a challenge for me, let alone writing 150 entries in a Blog. It makes me feel like a success, like a person of accomplishment, like someone who is trying to come up with an ACTUAL topic for this monumental entry instaed of just shooting the bull to fill the page. But I digress - this entry DOES have a topic, as is suggested by the title. Skirting The Issue. I managed to get out last Saturday after a LOOONNNGGG drought of Julie Time. The first challenge was, as always, choosing an outfit. It's Saturday morning, I'm going to have breakfast at my favorite Saturday Morning Breakfast Place - Golden Corral Buffet - then do some shopping for "necessary female items". So, do I go with leggings and try to blend in, or do I go with a skirt because my "Guy Side" wears pants every day and skirts feel so good? OOD - my favorite comfy skirt This one shows the ACTUAL color ...

Who Was That Lady?

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For those of you still using Facebook, you know it can be a rather interesting forum. Questions get posed, statements made, arguments inflamed. Recently I posted one of my "I Love Dressing" Memes that stated, "I'm a straight male. I just have a feminine side, and I'm really comfortable with that". A friend asked me to elaborate on that statement, so I composed this response to him. I hope this not only informs but possibly assists someone who may be going through a similar journey. " As you pointed out, I said I identify as a Hetero Male To Female Crossdresser. By this, I mean I am a genetic male, attracted to genetic females. You asked if I was also attracted to trans women - that gets difficult to reply to. I am married and faithful, so I wouldn't have sexual relations with anyone other than my Darling Wife. I have never found myself (knowingly) attracted to a trans woman. However, I do appreciate the female form and figure. As I tell people to w...

Breakfast With Tiffany Level Sisters

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 Due to life circumstances, I don't anticipate much (if any) Julie time for the next 2 months. So today was a "get it while you can" breakfast date with my 2 dear Sister Friends. OOD - a very CHILLY D Sarah, Theresa and Me! We had a charming morning, discussing Sarah's work and Theresa's upcoming wedding (Oct 2026, but still). As well as 2 hours of laughs, tears, support, and uplifting each other - as Sisters should do.  I asked our Server to take this one - I should have thought about the back lighting, but there you are. As I have said before, getting all pretty and going out is a thrill. But sharing it with Friends/Sisters makes it SO much better.  And being with these two makes everything better. OK, I feel like I'm gushing a bit here, but c'mon! I love these ladies. The Moral Of The Post -- when you find that Special Friend, hold onto them. Don't let them go. The blessings will be multiplied when you share them with dear friends. Stay Safe And Pre...

7 Always Was My Lucky Number -- The "I Love Dressing" Memes Vol 7

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In lieu of any new and exciting content, here's another installment of my Daily FB Feature - The "I Love Dressing" Meme Of The Day.  I started putting these together to entertain and hopefully uplift my Sisters out there. I hope you enjoy them.   And last, but not least . . . As always, Stay Safe And Pretty, Sweeties.

Leaving 2024 And Into 2025

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  Have A Safe And Happy New Year, Sweeties!

Ooops, I Did It Again

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Well, I did it again. I spent a week out of town working on a job during the day and letting Julie out to play during the evening. Those who follow this blog will know I have a bi-annual (semi-annual? twice-a-year annual??) job on the other side of the state. It's a full week - drive over on Monday, work Tuesday thru Thursday, drive back on Friday.  On the plus side, I have my evenings free. On the minus side, I'm  in a small town in Western WA where most everything closes by 8pm. And since I work til 7 . . . (sigh) But I still manage to get Pretty and go out I try to arrive early in the day on Monday so I can hit the Outlet Malls (perhaps the biggest draw) and the thrift shops (at least 3 good ones here). This trip was no exception. Monday Night's Outfit After some shopping, I went to my usual haunt -- Applebee's. Only coming here twice a year for a few days, I am always impressed that the bartenders there - Nerissa and Nicole - know me. On Monday I walked in and Neris...