Joni Mitchell Was Right

"Don't It Always Seem To Go
That You Don't Know What You've Got Til It's Gone"

 Being under lock down has been hard.  Now, I think I'm one of the fortunate ones in that my job was considered essential (enough) that I have been going to the office every day since this all started.   But my job is in "Boy Mode", so while I have been getting out of the house every day, Julie has not.

 So I took some time on Saturday to get all pretty for no reason other than Getting Pretty.  Didn't get together with my Sister Friends, didn't go anywhere, didn't even step out the door onto the porch!  However, the effects of the session were tangible.  I had not been sleeping well for about 3 weeks.  Never felt relaxed, or de-stressed.  After a 3 hour session of "Pampering", I had the most restful night's sleep in a LONG time.  Funny how that works!
My New Favorite Dress

The Most Comfy Shoes I Ever Owned

Think I Have Enough Scarves?


 The Lesson?  Take Time For Yourself.  Pamper Yourself.  Take Care Of Your Needs.

 Stay Safe And Pretty, Sweeties!

Comments

  1. OxypaulDecember 4, 2020 at 10:09 AM

    I greatly admire you. I an 66 and have secretly crossdressed literally since I was 5. Married for 40 years she has no clue. Nor does my
    Family 👪
    What to do??? If alone I build up.my clothes and foundations. Living in So Ca is a treasure trove of opportunity
    And suggestions?

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    1. Julie M ShawDecember 23, 2020 at 6:55 AM

      Unfortunately there is no "one size fits all" reply to this situation, Sweetie. I personally went into my marriage with telling her everything up front. She hasn't always been accepting or supportive, but there has been no fear of "getting caught". You alone know what is best for you and your family. Wish I could be more helpful. Stay Safe, Sweetie.

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